Big Picture Goals

In her book & DVD set, Planning Your Charlotte Mason Education, Sonya Shafer encourages homeschooling mothers to consider big picture goals for their children. When your child stands before you having completed your program of study, ” she writes, “what do you want to see?”

I recently came across some old notes while perusing my copy of this book. They were my own big picture goals, written almost exactly two years ago. I was pleased to see that they haven’t changed at all.

A good sign, don’t you think? :)

I decided to jot them down here for future reference. Any time I wonder whether home education is the best path for our family, I can refer back to to this list and ask myself: in which educational environment will these goals have the best opportunity to become reality?

A quick read through this list reminds me that home is the best place for us at this point in time. I hope it will be for many years to come. :)

My Goals for Our Homeschooled Children

  • First and foremost, I want our children to pursue holiness. I want them to be virtuous and passionately in love with God, well formed in their religious education, and in possession of a strong and sincere faith in God and His Church
  • I want them to be pleasant to be around- having the skills to converse and interact with people of various ages and walks of life.
  • I want them to enjoy reading- to do it for pleasure and in pursuit of knowledge. I want them to be well-read and have the ability to discuss Great Books. I want them to write and speak well and to be able to transact money dealings and everyday calculations with ease.
  • I want them to have a grasp of the people in history and understand how their lives affect ours today.
  • I want them to respect and care for God’s creation and to retain their sense of wonder for the natural world.
  • I want them to appreciate great art and pursue artistic endeavors for pleasure. I want them to be exposed to the world’s greatest music and be proficient at playing at least one instrument. I want them to be able to use their hands to create useful, practical, and beautiful things.
  • I want them to be active in promoting Godly principles within our culture, be financially responsible, and have good solid habits that will carry them well through their lives.
  • I want them to fondly recall their childhoods, to uphold the value and dignity of family life, and, when they experience warmth, comfort, and beauty- to be reminded of home.

This exercise has value for all mothers, I think- not just homeschoolers. We all benefit from taking the time to consider the long-term goals for our children’s education.

10 Comments

  1. Beautiful goals!!! I was tempted to just copy yours… trying to come up with our own. Awesome post…

  2. Ummmm….the photo! I’m going to try to email you privately, but I about died seeing that photo…sure looks like the lake I grew up swimming in, and that sure looks like the angle from my brother’s place??? Am thinking you know my people!

  3. Ummmm….the photo! I’m going to try to email you privately, but I about died seeing that photo…sure looks like the lake I grew up swimming in, and that sure looks like the angle from my brother’s place??? Am thinking you know my people!

  4. Wow, that is amazing to read. I’ve never laid out our big picture goals so concretely, so I think that would be a great start for the year ahead. Thanks for the inspiration!

  5. I want to second Chris. You are such a blessing and your list has given my husband and I much food for thought. The only thing other thing I would highlight (though it is entwined in some of your points) is for my boys as protectors of their families. I am not sure that is the right way to say it. Spiritually, emotionally, physically truly caring for their families. Thanks again for sharing from your heart.

    Michelle

  6. Your list is a beautiful, Sarah. I simply couldn’t have drafted anything more wonderfully said for these shared values, these shared ideals, and these shared visions, hopes, and dreams for our children. You are such a blessing :)

  7. Those are great goals and obviously not goals that can be met in public school, at least not in any public school that I know.

    As a former Catholic, I have some questions for you about your thoughts on certain issues but I suppose I can email them instead. I will some day. Some day soon.

  8. Thanks for sharing Sarah. Your post got me thinkin’ of my own goals for raising these marvelous little girls. Come on over and see what I came up with…

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