We’re just a little excited here at RAR this week.

First, it’s our 200th episode! 🥳

And second, it’s March, which here in the northern hemisphere meets *melting*. It also means a new season, and it’s a great time to name what matters, and set some intentions for how we want to finish out this homeschool year.

This week, the whole team will walk you through a simple process we’ve been using here at RAR in RAR Premium in order to name what matters – and how to get there.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
  • How to name what matters most this spring
  • Your FREE cheat sheet to making a plan for your own homeschool that’s doable
  • And … what we’re reading this spring! 📚🌱
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How to Name What Matters

Naming what matters is familiar vocabulary in RAR Premium because this is something we did recently in one of our Circle with Sarah events.

It’s based on the idea that none of us has an infinite amount of time or energy to do all the things we want to do in our homeschools.

This is not a problem. It’s just a reality.

Instead of lamenting that reality, we honor the fact that we know we have all the time we need to do what we’re called to do, each and every day, each and every season.

We’ve just got to be intentional about what we’re going to focus on.

The idea to naming what matters is fleshed out in Kendra Adachi’s book, The Lazy Genius Way.

And it’s something worth revisiting every season because our homeschools aren’t stagnant.

They’re always shifting. We’re always growing. Our kids are always getting older. And so we shift and change to honor that.

Name What Matters Most to YOU

We’re not here to tell you what matters most in your homeschool. This episode is an invitation for you to name what matters most yourself.

Here’s how we suggest you start:

Take just a second and imagine that it’s the end of the school year. You’re trying to wrap up loose ends and you’ve gone out to coffee with a friend and she asks you, “What are you most glad you did this school year?”

Your gut reaction to that question, whatever just popped into your mind. . .

. . . that’s what matters in your homeschool this spring.

You’re not going to be able to get to everything you want to, but just knowing that you got to this thing – you’ll know you’ve done something really important because it’s the first thing that came to mind for you when you were reflecting back on your year.

And you’ll have ended your school year with a win.

The Three Step Process

After we figure out what matters, we take that thing that matters through a set of 3 Lazy Genius steps. Once you see how powerful this three-step process is, you’ll be hooked!

Step 1: Decide Once

Basically this principle means that you’ll make a decision one time to avoid decision fatigue.

Decision fatigue is real, and intense and deciding once simplifies things so much.

Step 2: Start Small

This keeps us from falling into that rut of we can’t do it all so we’re just not going to do anything. Basically we come up with a tiny habit – a small way to implement this thing that matters.

Step 3: Ask the Magic Question

The magic question is, “What can I do now to make this easier later?

We want to make it easy to do that thing that matters, so that we actually do it.

Your Turn to Name What Matters! (and a free printable)

Just get quiet for 10 minutes or so and answer these questions.

You might come up with a ton of answers right away – there’s sort of no end to the number of things that homeschool moms actually have to be responsible for.

Just choose the one that feels the most pressing, interesting, or exciting.

This is not a commitment for life.

It’s your priority for this season. Next season, you’ll get to ask the question again and choose something else.

Then, once you’ve got that thing that matters, follow up by applying the three Lazy Genius principles: Decide Once, Start Small, Ask the Magic Question.

Books mentioned in the show

A Splash of Red: The Life and Art of Horace Pippin
Felicity: An American Girl
Kaya: An American Girl
John Ronald’s Dragons: The Story of J. R. R. Tolkien
The Lazy Genius Way
The Hobbit
A River of Words: The Story of William Carlos Williams
Steeped in Stories

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